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Are you done with your Christmas shopping yet? What’s on your list? Yes, I am. So far everyone on my list gets something on Christmas day. I bought things like shirts, toys, wrist watch and bags. Majority of the stuff I bought are for my Godchildren whom I haven’t seen for the past 8 years. I haven’t bought anything for my daughter yet, maybe tomorrow when I go to Manila. She wished for a kiddie computer. So I guess that would make her happy.

What would you do if you found out that your partner cheats on you? I’ll confront him in a nice and diplomatic way. That way I’d be able to gather all the info that I have in mind. That already happened once and it worked for me. He admitted his mistakes, asked for my forgiveness, made up for the damaged and lost times, asked me to marry him and….

We’ve been married for 4 years now, can’t say it’s a perfect one which everyone I think would agree coz there’s no such as perfect relationship. Just like the rest we still go through a lot of adjustments especially that he’s miles away from us.

Oh by the way, when I found out that he cheated on me, I didn’t confront him right away, I first spoke to people who had known the real “thing” that happened. When I was already sure, that was the time when I asked him. Of course, I cried a river. I was hurt! What do you expect??!!!

Does your partner remember important dates such as anniversaries and birthday or do you keep a calendar to remind him? Unfortunately, he does not. And that includes his parents and siblings’ birthdates. I keep a track in my cellphone and remind him 2 days before their birthdays and on the day itself. I always tell that this isn’t good. That he has to try hard and remember the dates. He remembers my birthday and our daughter’s birthday though but not our anniversaries. Well, sometimes he does but that’s very seldom. And if I get annoyed he’d just tell me “you should know me by now”. Hmp! I still wish one day he’d tell me ahead of time “Mahal, I made reservation in one of the hotels las vegas for our anniversary”. Haha!