How would you bring back your trust to someone who had broken it twice? Do you think it’s possible? Can a broken trust be whole again? By giving it time I guess. I was cheated on a lot of times. Sure I had forgiven them. That only means I was totally healed. The pain is no longer there but the scar remains. It sure does remind me of the damage. Once trust is broken you can never gain it back completely no matter how much you love the person. You can accept and continue loving the person but the process of building a 100% trust on that person again might take a lifetime or worst forever. So to answer the question, I don’t think it’s still possible. Once is okay, it’s tolerable. Twice is all but stupidity. And if you let it happen again and again, then you are the problem yourself, not the person breaking it.
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November 28th, 2008 at 5:58 am
It will be hard for me to trust a person who betrayed me even once! But he/she could gain it back but it will definitely be a long road for them.
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November 28th, 2008 at 6:03 am
Good morning Jo! Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. Care to share and post it on your blog? Would appreciate it.
November 28th, 2008 at 7:01 am
Hi Mitch ,, I’ve posted my answer on my Aussietalks site… Have a nice weekend ,, see u on TOY Hunt… enjoy ur day….
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November 28th, 2008 at 11:36 am
Hello! Here is my post http://www.mommyjourney.com/2008/11/when-sahm-one-speaks-trust.html
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November 28th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
hi sis, my answer is not up. sorry di masyado ako makapag-isip.
November 28th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
ill post my answer a little later. im still conditioning myself
November 30th, 2008 at 9:02 am
Hi Joy! Sure, thanks! I’ve posted my Toy Hunt entry for this week as well! Happy Sunday!
November 30th, 2008 at 9:03 am
Thanks for joining Chris! Happy Sunday!
November 30th, 2008 at 9:04 am
No probs, Arlene!
November 30th, 2008 at 9:04 am
Take your time, Maicel!
December 3rd, 2008 at 2:17 am
I guess love is powerful no matter how many times you’ve been hurt your love will still overpower any hurt you feel. But it will take time I agree. And the ghost of the past will keep hunting you. However its up to that person who hurt you to show sincerity to win your trust back. Love will remain but the hurt will be there.
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